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 Everyone
knows how exciting it is to adopt a new family
member. The urge is to notify the media, plan a
parade or at least have a fun debut party.
I
know when my parental units got me, they were so
excited. I had to sit for pictures, they emailed
everyone and they wanted to take me to a doggy
store to pick out some new toys. Fortunately,
they knew that most rescued dogs need time to
adjust to their new surroundings, family and
routine. Too much activity can cause anxiety or
fear, which can lead to hiding, cowering or
worse yet nipping.
The
first few hours should be low key with the
access to the whole house limited. Once we have
calmed down then we are more capable of doing
well when introduced to the other members of our
new house. Please allow us to sniff, explore and
come up to each person at our own pace. I do not
need Aunt Gertrude pinching my checks, telling
me what a handsome boy I am. Mom and Dad
provided me with a special place where I could
go escape and relax when I started to feel
overwhelmed. I had lived my life outside so
things in the house were a little scary. They
made sure to take me out of situations that I
perceived as scary.
Before I started to meet my parents’ friends
they made sure I was settled in and then they
started with one calm friend. They gave me
treats and lots of praise when I acted
appropriately. If you adopted a dog that has
trouble with new people or situations, it is
worth the effort to consult with a canine
behaviorist. So even though we are extremely
grateful that your house is now our home, please
hold off on having the debut party for a couple
of months and then we too will be able to enjoy
the party.
Love,
Harley
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